One way of viewing anger is as a signpost. It could be telling us something. If only we could soothe ourselves down enough to ask anger what it is telling us.
It might be saying that a boundary has been crossed. If we can take up the challenge to soothe ourselves down and explore which boundary has been crossed, we might be able to work out if our boundary is just too large It must be said of course that there is a tragically high proportion of people in our society routinely and thoughtlessly misuse anger and wield it like a weapon for degrading and controlling the ones they should shield and defend.